Category: Inspiration

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The Beauty of Refocusing

Posted on by Dr. Carol Wertz

“Aren’t you retired?” my former student asked as we stopped to chat in the grocery store.  In my mind, I translated his question.  “You look really old – why are you STILL working?”   LOL

O.k., maybe that wasn’t exactly what he was thinking.  But I lifted my chin and answered the question.  “No, I haven’t retired.  I’ve refocused.”  .  He mulled that over in his mind, told me he liked it, and we exchanged updates on our lives.

Retirement means different things to different people.  For many, it’s a chance to do something new.  For others, it’s an excuse to do nothing.

How old is too old?  I struggle with this concept, because age discrimination does exist in our society.  When people ask how old I am, I tell them I’ll divulge that information when I am no longer working.  I’ve seen it happen that once people know how old you are, they treat you differently, and I don’t think I’m ready for that.

Are there advantages to being old?  Absolutely!  Senior discounts, people asking if they can help you lift the kitty litter into your cart, and the occasional young person who opens the door with a smile to let me go before him.  But with age also comes a kind of wisdom that can only be taught by life and its experiences.  We are all in the process of gaining this.  As the road behind us becomes longer, it gets easier to look back and see how each experience has taught us something new, and how they have all combined to give us a particular perspective on life that is uniquely our own.

So…..why have I decided to refocus rather than retire?

For me, the question is: at what age are we to no longer try to make a difference?  A wise book tells us, “….they will still bear fruit in old age; they will stay fresh and green.”  (Psalm 92)   And in that book I don’t see the word “retirement”.  I see the concept of still bearing fruit, which might be as simple as getting together with friends and sharing a coffee and  encouragement.  It might be continuing to work in a field that you have loved and are now at the place where you can help to mentor others.  It might be sitting in your chair and praying for others.  Maybe you can sew, knit, crochet, or have another craft that you work on all year to put in a child’s Christmas box.  I have a friend whose mission is to adopt senior cocker spaniels, giving them a good home for their own “retirement years”.   Another friend tends plants in a public place to provide beauty for those who come to visit.

All of these people, to me, have refocused.  They have found something worthwhile to do that fits with their current life season and are engaging in the pursuit of that activity.   Their lives have purpose and meaning, which is what we all crave.   Use whatever talent God has given until you can do it no longer.  Retirement is for heaven.

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How Can I Make Your Day Remarkable?

Posted on by Dr. Carol Wertz

Recently I called my credit card company and was greeted with a cheery, “How can I make your day remarkable?”   It made me laugh, and I went on to tell her exactly how she could do that.

The phrase stayed with me.  I wrote it in big letters on my computer and taped it to the door of my office.  I shared the story with others.  I was genuinely struck by the thought…..

What if we really DID try to make other people’s time with us “remarkable”?

According to Webster: “worthy of notice; extraordinary”.  Wow!  Whose day do I want to make remarkable?  Students?  The principal?  The janitor?  The cafeteria workers?  In what way might I do that?  What does it look like?  Often a simple thank you for what they do will suffice.

Sometimes a person’s day can be brightened just by knowing that someone sees him/her.  Noticing something they’re doing, engaging in conversation with them, just taking a moment out of your day to brighten someone else’s.  What a noble goal.

In order to do this, we need to be intentional about it.  Determine each day to seek out at least one person – in a store, on your walk, at your work, even via email – to interact with and make their day “remarkable”.

Does it excite you to give it a try?

Posted in Community, Inspiration, Relationship, Teaching Strategies

5 Key Strategies for Teachers to Keep Communication and Connection with Students During Coronavirus Times

Posted on by Dr. Carol Wertz

Did the world just stop….or is it going at a speed you’ve never imagined possible? As we navigate this very surreal time in our history, we are wading into situations and making decisions that have never even been thought of. We have all had the familiar ripped out from under us and we’re being asked to do something we have no idea how to do! And if that’s true for us as teachers, it’s doubly true for students and parents.

Students need an anchor during this time, and that anchor needs to be something recognizable, something they know how to do, and something that can give them a feeling of success. Its key component has got to be communication that makes both children and parents feel connected, supported, and valued.

Some teachers I’ve spoken with are feeling resentful that this has been put upon them. And if WE’RE feeling that way, just imagine the feelings of the parent who has lost both her jobs, has no income and now is being told she must be the teacher! Our most important job at this point is to be a coach, a cheerleader, a leader, and a listener.

There are 5 key strategies that will help both students and parents to feel connected during this time.

  1. Phone call to every student,which includes talking with the parent.

Students must know that you’re thinking of them and you’re concerned about their feelings during this time. If you have sent home packets of work, let them know why. This is so the students won’t fall backwards and will keep them up to where they were when they left school. If you serve upper grade students that have email, let them know ahead of time you will be calling and give them an agenda of somethings to talk about. It’s not all about “the work”, but much more importantly, processing some feelings about what’s happening, and keeping them engaged in the importance of the learning process. How can we continue to move forward? In talking with parents, hear their concerns and give them the empathy they deserve. They are feeling overwhelmed, and afraid they’re not up to the task. Assure them you are still on the job and want to help, including referring them to another county service if necessary.

2. Find a way the child can still creatively contribute to the classroom.

It’s so important that students feel that they are still a part of a caring group that is familiar to them. Set up a facebook page, and feature activities that students are doing. Examples: send a picture of a video of yourself reading a book, learning a new game with your sibling, playing outside for P.E. time, researching a new subject, making a video, telling what your special act of kindness has been that day, writing a letter to your grandma, etc.

3. Make a video of you doing a classroom activity.

For younger children, the perfect activity is storytime. Tell the children to get a blanket and curl up on the couch while you read a story to them. Read just as though you were in the classroom, making a comment here and there, asking for a prediction, and putting in the animation you always do. This is something the little ones (and parents) will treasure as it provides a sense of “familiar”. If you’ve been reading a chapter book each day in the classroom for middle elementary or junior high students, continue with that. This is a time in the day that children looked forward to and it was a time to relax and unwind a bit. Let them know we can still continue with some of the routines we know.

4. Let students and parents know the parts of the routine that don’t have to change.

Most teachers established a routine in their classroom, perhaps even displaying it on the board so students would know what time different activities would happen. Share this school schedule with parents. For example, if your students are used to writing in their journal for 15 minutes as they come into the room, that’s how they start the morning. Does the pledge of allegiance come next? Why stop? One of the hardest things for parents to contend with is “the schedule” and being consistent. Remind children of the routine at school and share it with parents. Help parents adapt it for home, but stick as closely to what students are used to as you can.

If students are used to having a “fun Friday”, that’s something they could enjoy at home as well. Allow them to choose an activity to do on their own or to choose a topic they want to know more about. Maybe that’s the time to zoom with friends and do something online together. Be creative and flexible with this.

5. Continue to be positive and focused in a forward moving direction.

As has been said so often, “We WILL get through this.” And when we have, I’m convinced we’ll be able to look back and specify all the things we learned through this challenge. Both students and parents need hope. When they lose theirs, we become the merchants of hope for them . This is our time to step into the gap and be the listener, the encourager, the leader, and the partner our students and parents need.

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What Can I Do, Mom?

Posted on by Dr. Carol Wertz

Yes, it’s hard! All of a sudden, you’ve become a home-school teacher in COVID times. What?! This isn’t what I signed up for.

Since I’m hearing that kids are getting bored now and it’s time to come up with new activities, I’m going to put together a quick list for you to think about – some of these will work and some of them will spark ideas of your own to fit your situation.

Daily journaling is a great way to hear your children’s thoughts as well as explore some topics that are new. Some types of journals: gratefulness, interview (children interview someone each day with specific questions), kindness (they can write about how they were kind to someone that day), cooking, new experience, etc. The journal could also be done via video.

Other activities: cooking (which includes science and math), play a game with grandparents or other relatives via zoom, gardening (plants can be started indoors), build a fort (inside or outside), collect and paint rocks to be put in a garden or used in your landscaping, create a word scramble for another member of the family to solve, learn more about how to clean various areas of the house (older students can research the best products), build something with wood, make slime, play hopscotch, create a scavenger hunt (both inside and outside), dance, collect all kinds of things to make art projects, learn to sew, play badminton, learn a new card game, etc.

Again, this is just a very quick list. I’ll be glad to give more information and help in specifics, such as the scavenger hunts, and I do plan to expand the list. Meanwhile, I’d love to hear what you’re doing to be creative.

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I Can Play? Really??

Posted on by Dr. Carol Wertz

Last night at our charter school board meeting, we honored teachers who had a hand in producing the high scores in science that our students in the upper elementary grades had received on the state test. This was especially notable, because this is a bilingual school where the teachers teach 90% of the day in Spanish. For most of these children, it was only their second year of studying in this language. On top of that, there was no science curriculum for them to follow!

“What’s the secret?” we asked one of the teachers. “How did you do it?”

“I got excited about learning. And then I played. I’m a learner too, and I learned right along with them. And the best way to do that is providing lots of hands-on learning and have fun playing as we learn.”

Wow! Could it really be that simple? Basically, the answer is yes.

In his book, “The Thread That Runs so True”, written in the 1940’s, mountain teacher Jesse Stuart had an epiphany when he saw his students learning so much through play. Play was the “thread”. He realized this was key – to make his students think they were playing while they learned the various academic subjects.

I can hear some of you saying, “That’s not life. It won’t – and can’t – all be fun. I agree. But, knowing that it’s the teacher who creates the atmosphere in a classroom, what about you? Are YOU having fun? Do you love your job? Are you finding it to be creative, challenging, stimulating, empowering, and joyful? If not, do you have the courage to ask yourself why?

There are many factors we can blame. It’s because of administration and all we have to do, common core and how many standards there are to address, scripted curriculum and how boring it is, the teacher next door who refuses to engage in team planning……and the list can go on. How can we bring….or bring back……the fun and challenge of school?

As with anything, it starts with attitude, which is something we each get to choose. “Attitude is the mind’s paintbrush – it can color any situation.” And YOU’RE the one that gets to choose the color! Exciting, no? This is such an important concept to teach. And so much of teaching is modeling. Are you getting my drift? How are we doing at modeling what we want our students to display?

I really want to be challenged and have fun at the same time in my classroom. I intentionally choose an attitude that says my classroom is a place of learning, challenge, exploration, and fun. That means it’s up to me to present the concepts in a way that students can relate to, and practice them in a manner that’s interesting and fun for students. I, personally, am up for the challenge!